What Hurts The Most

Is watching someone you love self destruct and there is not a damn thing you can do about it...When no matter what you do or say it cant stop the momentum of chaos in someones life. You have to sit by and watch it happen and hope that they make it through...Im learning for teh first time that i cannot fix everything and more importantly that it is not my job to. Dont get me wrong I want more than anything to make it all go away for her and make it better but its at the point where only she can do it..My only hope is that its not too late!